Girl loses verginity. Myth 1: No girl cares. What about oral sex, anal sex, or even outercourse? And why is swiping your V-card such popular story fodder? Usually, the hymen looks like a fringe of tissue around the vaginal opening. For instance, it comes with old-school ideas that women are somehow property, chastity is prized over more important things like consent, non-exploitation, and mutual pleasure, Fisher says. First-Time Sex Trends of U. This probably comes from the other popular notion that college is the epicenter for rampant sexual activity, hook-ups, and sexual discovery. How you define "sex" and when you choose to have sex for the first time is percent up to you. This leads us to believe that Americans need some serious educating when it comes to consent. Help us delete comments that do not follow these guidelines by marking them offensive.